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For calling me a whore.

I've been way too lenient letting people heap abuse on me that I wouldn't allow if it were directed towards another mod.

I'm sure that some of you will be upset, and feel free to voice it, but keep it civil, please.

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wow...temporary or permanent? i didn't see the context, but that's certainly out of line - sorry you had to make this decision, and i don't know what she was thinking

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For that image? Are you fucking kidding me?

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For that image? Are you fucking kidding me?

Yes, for that image. I don't feel like I should have to tolerate that. You think I should let her call me a whore?

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Which image?

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it was from mean girls, and it said,

"BOO, YOU WHORE"

some girl was talking on the phone.

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Oh. I didn't see it, she probably deleted it.

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wickerkat wrote:
wow...temporary or permanent? i didn't see the context, but that's certainly out of line - sorry you had to make this decision, and i don't know what she was thinking

I'm not sure for how long. I posted it in the staff forum, and I'll post the consensus after everyone weighs in.

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mirka wrote:
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For that image? Are you fucking kidding me?

Yes, for that image. I don't feel like I should have to tolerate that. You think I should let her call me a whore?


Yes. I've called a dozen people here whores, and she didn't call you a whore, she posted an image that happened to have the word whore written on it, and her meaning didn't go beyond the reference to mean girls. It could have been any particular word written on that image. Not to mention all the shit going on in that thread was just bullshit, bickering back and forth between you, her, and Hard Candy, and all of it of the same fucking flavor and what flavor is that? Rude and mother fucking Snide, the lot of ya, indistinguishable one from the next except you got the ban stick.
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For that image? Are you fucking kidding me?

Yes, for that image. I don't feel like I should have to tolerate that. You think I should let her call me a whore?


Yes. I've called a dozen people here whores, and she didn't call you a whore, she posted an image that happened to have the word whore written on it, and her meaning didn't go beyond the reference to mean girls. It could have been any particular word written on that image. Not to mention all the shit going on in that thread was just bullshit, bickering back and forth between you, her, and Hard Candy, and all of it of the same fucking flavor and what flavor is that? Rude and mother fucking Snide, the lot of ya, indistinguishable one from the next except you got the ban stick.

She posted a photo that "happened" to have whore written on it? I'm sure she could have found a photo that didn't say whore on it and still make her point.

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....I don't know. I usually never say stuff like this.....I guess I sort of agree with nightrous. I didn't think she was calling you a whore, that's just the mean girls picture she had, which was her purpose. I know that sounds bad. Please don't ban me.

I think there is sooo so much shit that goes on here, and it usually falls on Six. I mean, that whole tony thing? the ongoing hard candy saga? everyone says shit to each other. I know you are a mod, and should be respected, but this seemed a little gun jumpy. Maybe I'm wrong. That whole porn thread is full of BS anyway. Too much fighting goes on here!!

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State Of The Cult thread in five, four, three...

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i already did one for 2009. you have to wait until december to do it! I regret making mine.

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LeHaHi wrote:
....I don't know. I usually never say stuff like this.....I guess I sort of agree with nightrous. I didn't think she was calling you a whore, that's just the mean girls picture she had, which was her purpose. I know that sounds bad. Please don't ban me.

I think there is sooo so much shit that goes on here, and it usually falls on Six. I mean, that whole tony thing? the ongoing hard candy saga? everyone says shit to each other. I know you are a mod, and should be respected, but this seemed a little gun jumpy. Maybe I'm wrong. That whole porn thread is full of BS anyway. Too much fighting goes on here!!

Yes, we were arguing. Too bad that she pushed it too far after I asked her to stop insulting me. I really don't get how you guys think that posting a photo with whore on it can be accidental?

So much shit "falls" on six? I would say she stirs it up like no one's business.

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mirka wrote:
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....I don't know. I usually never say stuff like this.....I guess I sort of agree with nightrous. I didn't think she was calling you a whore, that's just the mean girls picture she had, which was her purpose. I know that sounds bad. Please don't ban me.

I think there is sooo so much shit that goes on here, and it usually falls on Six. I mean, that whole tony thing? the ongoing hard candy saga? everyone says shit to each other. I know you are a mod, and should be respected, but this seemed a little gun jumpy. Maybe I'm wrong. That whole porn thread is full of BS anyway. Too much fighting goes on here!!

Yes, we were arguing. Too bad that she pushed it too far after I asked her to stop insulting me. I really don't get how you guys think that posting a photo with whore on it can be accidental?

So much shit "falls" on six? I would say she stirs it up like no one's business.

well, she does stir it, but she's not stirring alone. I'm not saying you're not justified, but I just think it's another part of the drama that goes on here. Fight, ban, fight, ban. What can you do? It's your job! That's what you're supposed to be doing. So, it's whatever. I'll be quiet now.

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Can I see the picture?

I mean is it possible she posted the pic implying you're the mean girl calling her a whore?

I didn't see it. So I don't know if it fits.

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Minerva wrote:
Can I see the picture?

I mean is it possible she posted the pic implying you're the mean girl calling her a whore?

I didn't see it. So I don't know if it fits.

Sure, you can see it. But why would she imply that I was calling her a whore? I don't have any reason to think that, much less imply it.

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I hate that thread.

I wish people would listen to me.

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mirka wrote:
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Can I see the picture?

I mean is it possible she posted the pic implying you're the mean girl calling her a whore?

I didn't see it. So I don't know if it fits.

Sure, you can see it. But why would she imply that I was calling her a whore? I don't have any reason to think that, much less imply it.


She thinks you hate her, dude.

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i'll rummage through the box of things i've dug out of culty trash cans through the years... i know i've got minerva's 'official lolz anaylist certification' in here somewhere...

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I don't hate her. I never have. I don't now.

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maybe it's one of those things where you mean to say one thing and instead of sarcastic it comes off bitchy - i know i've sent out many e-mails and re-read them at the last minute thinking - well, this could certainly be misinterpreted

not to pry, but have you talked to her, asked her what she was thinking? that image certainly does SEEM to be a bit hostile

i don't know

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Wow. I remember when she was this kid who first joined the board and so was Space Monkey. Now everyone is old and none of us will ever get Social Security because there will be no money for any of us. Still, you can't go around calling people whores. Except in Amsterdam, and even there, I think they say it in Danish or something and only in the Red Light district.

This all makes me think of Brock Landers. Random tangent.

Memories, light the corners of my mind....

and so on.

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When you google "Mean Girls Macro" that's the first picture.

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Okay, that's extremely bizarre. I was just thinking about Parkaboy today. Wondering where he was.

What's up dude?

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I never understood why people did Six/. until really recently. Like, two days ago. Before that i just thought people were being weird.

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fyi, mean girls is on TBS tonight. Thought that was interesting.

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six/dot always makes me imagine her paired up as some sort of comedic duo with the animaniac.

i'd shop tob in, but i lack ambition.

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ejrathke wrote:
I never understood why people did Six/. until really recently. Like, two days ago. Before that i just thought people were being weird.

I, too, was rather slow to pick up on that.

On a more relevant note, I don't think was any malicious intent in the posting of that picture. Within the context of the movie from which it's taken, it's not said in a hostile manner either.

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What are you referring to?

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Me? If so, I was talking about the Mean Girls picture.

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elegantly_bitter wrote:
ejrathke wrote:
I never understood why people did Six/. until really recently. Like, two days ago. Before that i just thought people were being weird.

I, too, was rather slow to pick up on that.

On a more relevant note, I don't think was any malicious intent in the posting of that picture. Within the context of the movie from which it's taken, it's not said in a hostile manner either.

Sam, that photo was tossed at me in a dismissive manner in the context of an argument. I pissed her off and she lost her temper, hence the whore photo.

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elegantly_bitter wrote:
Me? If so, I was talking about the Mean Girls picture.

No, what you guys said you didn't pick up on.

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that six/. or six/dot refers to Six on the Dot.

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Oh, I read your post wrong.

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This is so ridiculous!

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If you were to watch the movie, you'd realize that by using that phrase/picture she was not calling you a whore. If you were to watch the movie, you'd realize that it's said when someone wants to voice their disapproval.

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One of her nicknames is BOO, is there any chance she was referring to HERSELF? I call myself a whore when I'm pimping my work. Of course I could totally be wrong.

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I've a feeling that won't last and won't bode well for her.

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NAILED IT!

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This seems like the kind of misunderstanding that could have been cleared up via PM to see if a ban was necessary.

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Caitlinstalks wrote:
If you were to watch the movie, you'd realize that by using that phrase/picture she was not calling you a whore. If you were to watch the movie, you'd realize that it's said when someone wants to voice their disapproval.

I'm not going to rent a movie to see if someone meant to call me a whore or not. Smile

It's unfortunate that Six couldn't be bothered to communicate in a way that was clear. Throwing up an image with the word whore during an argument isn't going to make anyone do research. They're going to take it at face value, like I did.

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Seriously folks, Six has toed the line and stepped over enough times. Even if she didn't mean it seriously, she shouldn't have done it. Mirka is an authority around here. When arguing with an authority figure one usually knows not to call said figure a whore.

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ScribblingDes wrote:
Seriously folks, Six has toed the line and stepped over enough times. Even if she didn't mean it seriously, she shouldn't have done it. Mirka is an authority around here. When arguing with an authority figure one usually knows not to call said figure a whore.

Giggan is going to have a field day with your use of 'authority ', but thanks. Des.

Mike, I don't PM people and ask if they really meant to call me a whore. What are you asking me? That I should have PM'd six to ask her that? Really?

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No! But it seems rather than perpetuating things in the thread itself, a conversation via PM would have been more appropriate before things escalated as they did.

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ScribblingDes wrote:
Seriously folks, Six has toed the line and stepped over enough times. Even if she didn't mean it seriously, she shouldn't have done it. Mirka is an authority around here. When arguing with an authority figure one usually knows not to call said figure a whore.

I should have referred to you as one of the 'powers that be.'

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No! But it seems rather than perpetuating things in the thread itself, a conversation via PM would have been more appropriate before things escalated as they did.

I agree. It would have been much better if she sent me a message or emailed me before posting that I'm a whore.

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Well, I was thinking a bit earlier, like here:
http://chuckpalahniuk.net/forum/1000026/porn-0?page=8#comment-2377825

I mean, as an admin, you gotta do what you gotta do, but it if I were a mod, I would have taken it to PM at that point.

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monkeywright wrote:
Well, I was thinking a bit earlier, like here:
http://chuckpalahniuk.net/forum/1000026/porn-0?page=8#comment-2377825

I mean, as an admin, you gotta do what you gotta do, but it if I were a mod, I would have taken it to PM at that point.

I would agree with you if we were talking about someone else, But, in this case, no. We've tried that in the past with six and it blows up because she relates everything back out of context in a total victim mode. I thought it would be better on the forum to avoid her putting a spin on it later.

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.....and were back to it's good she didn't PM you.

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