The Chuck Chicks Thread

But of course.

My earlier title was 'feeling humble' - inspired by some TS Eliot I was reading the other day.. In fact, I meant to start a thread about that.

Go for it Disx. I know it sounds so stupid, but life really is too short.Live in the know etc. (Or was that Live in the now?)

ahah french movie!!!
She's talking like a gangst rap fan and famous to be racist...
She seems hairy too.

Live in the know. Very nice . Its like having your jellroll and eating it too..

Live in the Know...I think I got that from Wayne's World!

Frammy, I didn't like Orlando. But I'm not the art cinema type very much anyway. And i dislike Virginia Woolf.

I like the chick in Orlando, but the film itself was sort of too artsy for even an artsy film... about nothing except this chick who metamorphs into a man and back and it's got some great scenes as far as imagery and ambiance go, but yeah... I like that chick in Tim Roth's The War Zone... Tilda Swinton right? Yeah she's also good in 'Female Perversions' which is very reminiscent of Orlando at points...

Where have all the good men gone
And where are all the gods?
Where's the street-wise Hercules
To fight the rising odds?
Isn't there a white knight upon a fiery steed?
Late at night I toss and turn and dream
of what I need

[B]CRASH[/B]

I need a hero
I'm holding out for a hero 'til the end of the night
He's gotta be strong
And he's gotta be fast
And he's gotta be fresh from the fight
I need a hero
I'm holding out for a hero 'til the morning light
He's gotta be sure
And it's gotta be soon
And he's gotta be larger than life

[I]DO-DO-DO-DO-DO (drummachinedrummachinedrummachine)[/I]

Somewhere after midnight
In my wildest fantasy
Somewhere just beyond my reach
There's someone reaching back for me
Racing on the thunder end rising with the heat
It's gonna take a superman to sweep me off my feet

[B]CRASH[/B]

[I]DO-DO-DO-DO-DO (drummachinedrummachinedrummachine)[/I]

Up where the mountains meet the heavens above
Out where the lightning splits the sea
I would swear that there's someone somewhere
Watching me

Through the wind end the chill and the rain
And the storm and the flood
I can feel his approach
Like the fire in my blood

[I](drummachinedrummachinedrummachine)[/I]

now that we're back from intermission...

what's this i hear about moaning?

uhhhn!

I just read somewhere that women all want strong powerful men because its in our genes. Any thoughts ladies?

Personally, I think thats crap. In general I go for bookish, nerdy, wickedly funny men that can cook. I am shallow in the sense that they have to have a fit body but they don't have to be drop dead handsome to attract me. Guys full of bravado are a huge turn off.

strong power is relative mirkah...i think its true..its instinctual. we go for men who would best suit us, and prolonging of our genes (aka offsprings).. perhaps you go for bookish nerdy funny men beacuse they are intelligent (hence resourceful..at least potentially resourceful)..etc etc

i highly recommend survival of the prettiest by nancy etcoff...and all the other evoluntionary psychology books out there...i;ve a powerpoint presentation on this subject...let me know if you want me to elaborate..but the general gist is that we are all here to pass on our genes..by any means necessary

I think you're right in a way Mirkah. Yeah, I do like bookish, intelligent guys, but it would be nice to know that any guy I was with could kick some ass in my defense, if it came down to it.

i too like the lean but not tiny look....intelligenec is a BIG deal with me...stocky muscley guys are a huge turn off..but tiny stick men is also a huge turn off too

Okay, I want to ask you guys something, because sometimes I think I'm the only person that thinks this way, and it makes me feel like a freak:

It's very difficult for me to find someone that I hardly know attractive. If I'm out with friends and we see some guy on the street or in the mall, yes, I can realize that he has all the features of an attractive person, but it just doesn't (for lack of a better phrasing) do anything for me.

Likewise, if I meet a guy I think is attractive, but find out later he has shit for personality, I will find him less and less attractive as time goes by. I went to high school with this kid named Eric, and all my girlfriends were nuts about him. But he was a pretty big ass, he wasn't smart, and he cheated on a friend of mine while they were dating. It was impossible for me to think he was attractive in any way. I could look at his face, think to myself, "yup, he has a pretty face," but nothing inside of me connected on it.

And also, if I meet a guy who's kind of average looking, but with a fantastic personality, he tends to become more and more attractive to me as time goes on and I get to know him better.

And now I am praying that I am not all alone on this, because it makes me feel like a bit of a freak.

you're not the only one

i feel the same way too
personality..ability to communicate..intelligence are huge with me...i used to have a list..now its gone...a checklist is worthless..its all about the feelgn that you get

i was eating dinner with a friend of mine at a korean restaruant and after we left..i was like...i think the guy is cute...boyfriend material..he looked at me and said..but that guy isnt good lookiing at all (this is a friend who thinks he's da shit), and i was like....its not about looks..just about the feelign you get

but i always tend to fall for friends...never based on purely physical attraction...that's all bull..and it was confirmed...as i got burnt...well not really...just felt stupid for likign this guy...3 day crush that lasted too long..but i ended up hooking him up with my best firend

[QUOTE][i]Originally posted by mirkah [/i]
[B]I just read somewhere that women all want strong powerful men because its in our genes. Any thoughts ladies?

Personally, I think thats crap. In general I go for bookish, nerdy, wickedly funny men that can cook. I am shallow in the sense that they have to have a fit body but they don't have to be drop dead handsome to attract me. Guys full of bravado are a huge turn off. [/B][/QUOTE]

bookish yes
nerdy no way, not ever
wickedly funny what do you think
cook whoa look out

it's a shame you're out on the west coast ninja

you need to get a new pic frammy
lol...quite a catch arentcha?

my grilfriend seems to think i am! *wink*

i'll have to hunt a new picture up. don't have many in fact, but they're around somewhere.

yeah it took me forever to download my pics off of my minidv...
when i first got it i took so many pics
but yesterday when i donwloaded them off of my computer...i was like...man....only a couple are my favourites..so i only kept those... my friends think i have the same poses... i like artsy angles...or whatever you called it

and no..i was and never hitting on you...i'm never and never want to be the 3rd person in an equation..they are just evil! EVIL!

i need to take new pics...interesting ones...most of my pics just highlight my eyes and lips..whcih i think are my best features

but some of you...think...i...look.....mannish....

it's ok if you were
no harm no foul
the worlds a strange place
options are everywhere
just keep your ear to the ground

mannish? i don't have a pic of you, unless your avatar is you and then it's all in the angle.

the avatar is me..
but is it really mannish?

disx thinks i lookalika man
i shoudl post my pics somewhere...
itll be up....soon

i like guys that have a penis....i generally look for...a penis.

i ill never post a picture of my manhood. you'll just have to take it from me that i have one.

[QUOTE][i]Originally posted by small_fire [/i]
[B]i like guys that have a penis....i generally look for...a penis. [/B][/QUOTE] I like women who are honest and have a sense of humor.

ditto

[QUOTE][i]Originally posted by jane s. [/i]
[B]Okay, I want to ask you guys something, because sometimes I think I'm the only person that thinks this way, and it makes me feel like a freak:

It's very difficult for me to find someone that I hardly know attractive. If I'm out with friends and we see some guy on the street or in the mall, yes, I can realize that he has all the features of an attractive person, but it just doesn't (for lack of a better phrasing) do anything for me.

Likewise, if I meet a guy I think is attractive, but find out later he has shit for personality, I will find him less and less attractive as time goes by. I went to high school with this kid named Eric, and all my girlfriends were nuts about him. But he was a pretty big ass, he wasn't smart, and he cheated on a friend of mine while they were dating. It was impossible for me to think he was attractive in any way. I could look at his face, think to myself, "yup, he has a pretty face," but nothing inside of me connected on it.

And also, if I meet a guy who's kind of average looking, but with a fantastic personality, he tends to become more and more attractive to me as time goes on and I get to know him better.

And now I am praying that I am not all alone on this, because it makes me feel like a bit of a freak. [/B][/QUOTE]

jane, i wouldn't call you a freak (not to your face, anyway) but i mean, physical attraction is the proverbial foot in the door. if you met a guy who had physical atributes you don't find particularly appealing, or is "average looking" it takes longer for him to get that foot in the door. whatever, we all have things we find attractive, some of us are just a little more adamant about dating only those who fit in our predetermined parameters.

smalls would be one of those girls with few sticking points

what i've read, mirkah, is that women like strong, powerful men when they are ovulating, as these show the most characteristics of sexual maturity, and thus are most likely to impregnate them. at any time of the month other than ovulation, especially menstruation, women tend to prefer men with softer features and less traditional secondary sex characteristics (broad shoulders, facial hair/stubble, deep voice, etc.), because these are the men biologically most suitable as companions, caretakers and partners. i don't know where to find the info, but there was a study done on this.

on a personal note, when it comes to strangers, i tend to have eclectic taste (i'd totally jump both trent reznor and the rock any day, hard to get much more different than that), but i base it on physical features. i think i tend to go physically for guys with a strong facial bone structure no matter what their coloring or stature. but as far as relationships go, my bf is a big softie, a musician, very sensitive and kind. not effeminate by any means, but not "macho." so i think there is a duality there.

[QUOTE][i]Originally posted by insomnomaniac [/i]
[B]a musician, very sensitive and kind [/B][/QUOTE]

I was one of those once. Chicks dig them. Then I got a job and paid bills. So much for that career...

and you're trying to say...?

[QUOTE][i]Originally posted by framstedt [/i]
[B]my grilfriend seems to think i am! *wink*

i'll have to hunt a new picture up. don't have many in fact, but they're around somewhere. [/B][/QUOTE]

Dude, this is in no way a cut... first thought after I saw your pic was Nic Cage as Gordon Gecko...

[QUOTE][i]Originally posted by insomnomaniac [/i]
[B]and you're trying to say...? [/B][/QUOTE]

Just that I was a musician once. No deep meaning behind it all. I was in a hack band and everything. Good times...

[QUOTE][i]Originally posted by insomnomaniac [/i]
[B]what i've read, mirkah, is that women like strong, powerful men when they are ovulating, as these show the most characteristics of sexual maturity, and thus are most likely to impregnate them. at any time of the month other than ovulation, especially menstruation, women tend to prefer men with softer features and less traditional secondary sex characteristics (broad shoulders, facial hair/stubble, deep voice, etc.), because these are the men biologically most suitable as companions, caretakers and partners. i don't know where to find the info, but there was a study done on this.
[/B][/QUOTE]

HA! Ok that makes sense. I'm not going to go into a bunch of personal detail about my sex life but that absolutely makes sense.

Frammy,

you're a doll. I would definately go on a couple of dates with you to see if we had physical chemistry. You're wicked funny and we have the food thing in common. But ya got Red and I got MLM not to mention the mess of long distance relationships

omfg he DOES look like nicolas cage!!

[QUOTE][i]Originally posted by origamiLips [/i]
[B]but some of you...think...i...look.....mannish.... [/B][/QUOTE]

Oh great... I mention Nguyen from 21 Jump street as an offhand reference and I've created a new dysmorphic...

Nah, I had already told her she looked mannish in some other pics, and then you mentioned that.. So you just reinforced it.

21 jump st. holy crap. i remember that show.

the chuck chicks thread is getting testosterony .... Not that i dislike it but you know, it's right that girls are a lot more rare than guys on forums and stay away when hard talking fights starts. It could bring a little peace don't you think?
a little cliche though...

[QUOTE]smalls would be one of those girls with few sticking points [/QUOTE]

or perhaps i just like to get stuck...whoo-hoo!!!

on a more serious note, a guy could be really really unattractive, but if he is really good at whatever it is that he does, i will find him extremely attractive.

i first realized this when i was in debate in high school. now, there are some gross kids in debate. there was one that we called fester. we used to think he was quite gross until i witnessed him debate. this muthafucka was AWESOME. hence, i fell in love with him and stalked him at debate tournaments.

this also explains my undying love for phillip seymour hoffman.

does this also explain your love for me? although i'm not sure what i'm good at...shit i'm not a chick. uh, i'm wearing a wig right now. do you ladies approve? ON TV THERE IS A LEECH!

[QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Brock Landers [/i]
[B]Dude, this is in no way a cut... first thought after I saw your pic was Nic Cage as Gordon Gecko... [/B][/QUOTE]

i look like nicholas cage!?! really?

no cut taken, hombre.

[QUOTE][i]Originally posted by mirkah [/i]
[B]Frammy,

you're a doll. I would definately go on a couple of dates with you to see if we had physical chemistry. You're wicked funny and we have the food thing in common. But ya got Red and I got MLM not to mention the mess of long distance relationships [/B][/QUOTE]

indeed i do have red, and the forlorn memories of several long distance relationships gone awry. alas.

thank you, btw, for the compliment.

[QUOTE][i]Originally posted by insomnomaniac [/i]
[B]omfg he DOES look like nicolas cage!! [/B][/QUOTE]

another person thinks i look like nicholas cage!?! omg.

what . . . when . . . where

i agree with this.

and starlight, if it's getting testosteroney that's because most of hte posters on this thread, as with the rest of the board, are male. it can't be helped.

have we ever done the male female ratio poll?

no, but i'm assuming the difference is astronomical.

i think you're right, still you know how I love polls.

[QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Tuffy the Dump Truck [/i]
I like women who are honest and have a sense of humor. [/QUOTE]
and Fram's "Ditto"

That is so nice to hear/read.

[QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Starlight.Monkey [/i]
[B]the chuck chicks thread is getting testosterony .... [/B]
[/QUOTE]
If you think this is "testosterony" scroll back to the getting kicked in the balls mania a while back.

[QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Starlight.Monkey [/i]
it's right that girls are a lot more rare than guys on forums and stay away when hard talking fights starts. [/QUOTE]

Rare, yes, "staying away when "hard talking fights start", no.

personally I can't stay away from those hard talkin' fights... ooh boy, just lemme at 'em!!!

[QUOTE][i]Originally posted by small_fire [/i]
[B]or perhaps i just like to get stuck...whoo-hoo!!!

on a more serious note, a guy could be really really unattractive, but if he is really good at whatever it is that he does, i will find him extremely attractive.

i first realized this when i was in debate in high school. now, there are some gross kids in debate. there was one that we called fester. we used to think he was quite gross until i witnessed him debate. this muthafucka was AWESOME. hence, i fell in love with him and stalked him at debate tournaments.

this also explains my undying love for phillip seymour hoffman. [/B][/QUOTE]

It'd [i]have[/i] to explain your undying love for the guy. He is talented, I'll grant him that any time of the day. Except possibly when I've just woken up...

I think lots of girls do that - fall for guys based on talent. It's the only way I can explain some of the freakish relationships that turn up around these parts.