Personal advice
So anyway, I was dating this female for about 4 months, it was pretty serious except she knew she wanted to move out of town to experience life, so, we dated, we broke up, then got back together like 2 weeks later, just to decided to "just be friends". Anyway I've typed this over and over but best way to put it is, I think she's beautiful, sweet, smart and ambitious, I really genuinely care fore her, but she's been accepted to a college a few hours away and she thinks leaving will make her happy, my point is I really like her but I don't want to stop her from leaving in a few months to follow her happiness. So I'm drunk and she wants to comeover to stay with me, am I just torturing myself, or should I just enjoy it while I can knowing full well it will end?
This is the second time this has happened and I did that the first time and I have no regrets about that, anyway I already told her she could come over, I just have to make a decision and my friends are the worst for stuff like this
I say follow your heart then. What does it say? I say enjoy it while it last. I mean what can that hurt? If you didnt regret it before you probably wont now. But it does sound like you are really into her, so it may be torture for you in the end.
Whatever Whore!
Yea your right, I need to go for what I want, you just don't understand how low I will feel if when stays because of me and it doesn't work, and then she's forever unhappy and its my fault forever
Ah, bootycalls.
hehe
I always smile when Sarah says something that shatters my vision of pixie innocence of her. But then I guess pixies weren't ever innocent in the first place.
I think you might be gay bro.
Anyway this is the thread you create when you listen to Gogol bordello with a fire on drinking Russian vodka to escape hardships, the real world, and women
Is there any other kind?
I want Siamese vodka now.
gross. Siamese vodka that is... Not Russian booty calls. I'm confused. What?
Gay eh? I don't know about all that, but the man in me is saying she's super hot get all the sex you can while you can, but another part of me knows its not about the sex, also she seems to think she's leading me on, but she's a few years younger, just a few but in early 20s that matters (I think), so I feel like if I stay in it for sex and to stave off loneliness, then I'm the one leading her on, because she thinks shes using me for the same things Im using her for and we both know its leading to pain, but I know what's coming and she doesnt
How could you say Siamese vodka is gross?
Any vodka is gross to me.
I think what he's trying to say is you're soft.
Are you gonna be one of those that's always either drunk or high when posting on the Cult?
If you are both "using" each other then you shouldn't get so emotionally involved. Especially if you know she is leaving. Get all up in those guts as much as you can because you'll regret it once she leaves.
I think it's okay if he's emotionally connected with this girl but I would agree that it's not worth becoming overly emotionally invested in something that is most likely not going to work out. Definitely just enjoy your time with her. Oh yeah and tap that ass as often as you can before it's gone.
Then as well, a person can learn quite a bit by becoming over emotionally invested in something that is doomed for failure or unable to be fulfilled in the desired ways from the beginning.
Torment is one of the more interesting states to reflect upon and examine from an introspective standpoint.
I really don't know anything about dating though.
For fucks sake! Just fuck and don't give a fuck.
Enjoy it and enjoy her company.
Seriously, I think you are waaay over thinking it.
Sarah is the best at this!
Sarah you need to start a thread where you give advice to people.
Sarah you need to start a thread where you give advice to people.
Yes! Do it!
I hope I'm not going to be drunk everytime I post, anyway, I defiantly was overthinking it, and I can be kind of soft when I drink, I've just got all my friends with their advice (it's all pretty terrible) I think I just needed someone from the outside to remind me this isn't a real problem, it just looks like it to me because everyone keeps asking me what I'm going to do. Thank you guys, and I'm assuming rosiemoonjumper is Sarah, if so, thank you and you should have a thread.
Are you really Pepper's kid? (sorry, I am slow today).
PS Sarah, you must do that thread.
No! He is not my kid!
My kid posted under my account the other night when I left the page open.
Gabriel would be grounded for about a year if I found him posting on the internet about being drunk and smoking hash and having sex in a relationship that was going nowhere (and at gabes age all of his relationships ought to be not going far at this point, doesn't need that intensity yet) Damn Hattie! What do you think of me?
And here I was just coming into the topic to say I like this new member and how he is an overly nice over thinking big softy drunk.
I'm all shook up now.
Doesn't matter what you do, you'll love and cherish and hate and regret it all long past the time you wish you could just let go of it. And it's awesome. Live. One Thousand percent, balls-to-the-wall, make the explosions grander and the tiny quiet moments fit gently on the palm of your hand and love them for what they are, perfect in every way.
This is why we can't have nice things.
Sorry Pepper - I really did start to doubt it, the more he has posted.
How old are you Rando?
I'm guessing 19 years (+/- 18 months.)
This is why we can't have nice things.
Dude your a Juggalo... slap on some face paint, put a weave in your nut hair then hit that sh** . When your done teabag her while spraying faygo in her face. /thread.
“The man of knowledge must be able not only to love his enemies but also to hate his friends.”
― Friedrich Nietzsche
Enjoy while you can or you will regret it.
You dont want to look back wondering what if?
Whatever Whore!