Less is More - NMI
I don't know how long the thing I noticed was like that, or why at all, because there was never anything alerting me to noticing it at all, or maybe I just haven't been paying attention at all.
This has nothing to do with my marriage. Another friendship that apparently makes me feel all of the above at times, now. Mostly because I feel I must censor myself and not speak up.
NMI, because this is too vague to put anywhere else. But I want to say it so it isn't in my head anymore.
Amber you aren't alone. I have issues with a close friend who lives in my town, and has only come to visit me twice - in 4 years!!
This is the crux.
She can be really great, but no one tells her about her short comings.
I've seen her influencing people to waaay over spend while drunk or over spend in general. I just wish she would quit that crap out.
Trying to figure out how to approach her.
Probably fix it after Christmas. How can people so insightful for others and, be so blind to their own obvious faults? I guess we are all like that, a little.
I'm posting in the wrong place, in response to pepper's post. You are understood Amber, and not alone.
You TMEYED the NMI sema!
Kidding. thanks for the thoughts. My stuff will be fine. Just move on and don't look back, unless to recall a lesson or laugh relevant to the current state of things.
I want to stop smoking, I hate smoking, I dont enjoy smoking. But god do I love the act of smoking. New years might as well knock that off
As your attorney, my advise to you is to start drinking heavily(er).-Tuffy
Hear hear!
Si vis pacem, para bellum
Right!
God - what a shame that you can't choose family and their partners.
You can in India!
You mean they're chosen for you.
Haha I suppose I have a lot to be thankful for in that respect.
I like this girl, a lot. But my headheardcock are holding me back and not making sense.
More self medication!
As your attorney, my advise to you is to start drinking heavily(er).-Tuffy
lol monkey see, monkey do
or monkey see post, monkey post
I bet you subscribe to his posts so as to never miss an opportunity for inclusion into his uh...exclusion.
You're a pathetic and transparent man child thing.
Until I read that last line I thought you were talking to Irina, for some reason.
I was thinking Ack Alecia! Too harsh Too harsh!
What?!?!? Noooo! Not Irina! (not Noah, either...I realize it could look like too).
It was meeeee!
This is why we can't have nice things.
This could be it.
Quite... a fucking night. I hate it. I've always been the one to want to hear about everyone's deepest, darkest secrets and emotions, and help them come to terms with them, no matter how long. But fuck... I think I've lost that, cuz gawddamn, it's gotten way out of hand. When the fuck did I become the go-to-guy for these sort of confessions? ......... Oh yeah... that's when. But still, I'm going through a lot right now, bro. Your non-issues (that are quite serious, regardless) aren't a prime-enough concern for me to get into my cold, emotionless, analytical mode right now.
Si vis pacem, para bellum
Thanks for ruining my high by dragging something from the past into haunt me.
My friend's girlfriend asked to see my penis. I may or may not have obliged her.
I think my friends worry that I am not just joking around at this point.
As your attorney, my advise to you is to start drinking heavily(er).-Tuffy
Pft. I've shown my penis to lots of people. Ain't no thing.
I do regret that magazine though.
This is why we can't have nice things.
My dick is all over the place. No regrets.
As your attorney, my advise to you is to start drinking heavily(er).-Tuffy
This needs to be on the next Cult t-shirt.
This is why we can't have nice things.
I don't want to go.
pity party
it is so unfair
maybe i will cry
I want to do things.
Lord, so do I.
This is why we can't have nice things.
Fuck that.
Si vis pacem, para bellum
I don't just want to do things, I want the intellect to carry it out.
I don't like this and I don't want to do this and I don't want to start this and I need to stop this
I'd like to do things, but I'd like the time and energy to do them. I'm quite liking doing nothing right now though. I'd like more time to do nothing too.
You're soo close yet so far right now.
How I can still think of him fondly after all these years is beyond me.
I'm going to ruin my body if I keep this bullshit up
I'm gonna end up in a room with padded walls but I guess that's the plan.
Just fuck off!
It's not you this is happening to, so bugger the bloody hell off and don't get shitty with me because it's not my fault and it's really not a huge deal.
Fuck.
Fuck the both of you, spamming my feed with happy little pictures of yourselves.
Who are they? They look very New Age?
Andrei, the silly guy I've loved for 5 years, and his pretty girlfriend.
He is hideous.
Seriously. I am laughing.
This is why we can't have nice things.
Love is blind.
Hide him from your newsfeed.
EDIT_
Also, he's not hideous.
Dank je, Imke. And I did. Luckily facebook has all sorts of possibilities for that.
I'm not going to be a bitch as I would hate the idea of people laughing at pictures of me on a random Internet site.
But um, I understand, Irina, having been fixated with some guy (who was no oil painting) for a few years during high school.
And, as I told you long ago, it is also stupid.
Time to put the funny-looking clownboy firmly in your past.
This is why we can't have nice things.
I am TRYING, I've been trying for years, but time flows differently for me, I guess. In March he'll have left 3 years ago. That's 3 years of that bullshit 'out of sight, out of mind'.
Ahaha!
Seriously. I am laughing.
And this whole time I've been picturing this:
Lol Pete.
Sorry for the mixed signals. I wasn't actually trying to break your neck.