Hooray of the Day!
The woman doing my Dad's CT scan today said it didn't look like the Cancer has spread. We won't know for sure for a few days, but I am relieved that she was as positive as she could be at this stage.
I'm glad you guys were able to get some more information while waiting for the surgery.
thanks, Imke! 
I got a post card from JAAAAAZZZZZZ!!!! WOOOOHOOO!!
My banana brownies were very much appreciated at school today.
omfg Alex is single again!
Go. Get that dick.
Amber, it's ok now, isn't it? She cheated on him again.
It cracks me up when you talk like that!
Got to hang out with dogs and a three legged cat. Watched movies and hung out all weekend. Went to a good show. Danced around a bit. SHowed my brother how to talk to girls. Hung out with hippie girl and her dogs. Had crazy strange dreams and got to sleep in a bed with a cute girl next to me. It was nice.
As your attorney, my advise to you is to start drinking heavily(er).-Tuffy
You make it sound like I am the voice of morality or something.
ha
You are my Jiminy Cricket.
Well at least I seem to be able to talk others into playing good. One day I might talk myself into it as well.
I love that you said this. I tell my friends they have to by my Jiminy Cricket all the time.
As your attorney, my advise to you is to start drinking heavily(er).-Tuffy
I liked that.
Didn't he tell you he was single last time only he wasn't?
I vote keep working Guy At School.
New is always better anyway.
This is why we can't have nice things.
I'm happy you got happy news, Hattie.
I vote keep working Guy At School.
New is always better anyway.
This.
Yeah, Alex doesn't sound like a guy worth being with. Even if the sex is amazing there is always something better out there. Unless Alex is what you really want then go for it.
I am happy.
Hooray!!
Hurrah!!
YES!!!
I vote keep working Guy At School.
New is always better anyway.
This.
Nope. Over the past 2 years that he's spent with her, once they were on a break, twice they were back together, I knew it, but it wasn't my idea (so that kinda makes it less my fault, right?).
I don't wanna be with Alex, but I'd like to get laid at least one more time until the end of the year.
Don't go back to that fuckwit, Irina.
Have fun flirting with schoolboy.
Sarah! You're thinking about the wrong person again. Alex isn't the moron I loved. I'm never going back to that one.
No, we established previously that Alex is also a fuckwit.
This is why we can't have nice things.
He's not even a teeny weeny bit of a fuckwit?
Didn't he cheat on his previous girlfriend with you?
The moron you loved is that awful guy from the Actual COnversations thread, right?
If you look at it that way, maybe he was, towards his girlfriend. But I really don't care about that. He's actually the one guy that never did me wrong or whatever you wanna call it. This arrangement has worked for the past 3 and a half years.
Second question, yes. And I haven't spoken to him in 2 months. Six, with a brief spell of a couple of weeks during which he made me decide there's no way in hell I'm ever gonna speak to him again.
And she cheated on him first, during that first year+3 months that he stayed away from me.
You shouldn't worry about whether or not he cheated on her or she cheated on him, it has no relevance at all, if you are seeking a purely sexual relationship with him, aside from concerns about where your partner has been at least.
Worry about whether you are okay with being the other woman, and if you are then whatever.
I agree with the others that he is a fuckwit.
Single now > no worries for me. Haven't seen him since July.
I think you should forget about Alex and focus your energy on the classmate. Unless sex with Alex is just that important to you.
When I met Drew, I knew I wanted to date him and be in a relationship with him. Once we started dating, we became exclusive pretty quickly (meaning, we verbalised that we were exclusive, even though we already were, physically). Up until I met him, I'd been casually seeing (meaning sleeping with) another man. Even though it was good nookie, and even though I wasn't obligated to Drew after only a couple of dates, I stopped seeing the other guy immediately. It meant more to me to be able to say to Drew (if he ever asked) that it was only him from the moment we connected than it did to have one last romp with Jack. I never wanted him to have to "worry" that there'd been any overlap. It would not have been a deal breaker for either one of us, but it's always been a good feeling that there's only been the two of us from the very start.
Of course, I'm a lot older than you and in a different place in life, so I may not have felt the same way back when I was your age.
Alex just doesn't seem like someone worth sleeping with and the whole two wrongs don't make a right comes to mind too.
For you nice guys following along, this is why you have trouble getting laid:-
You're being all thoughtful and charming and funny, hoping that maybe that special girl will take interest in you. All of a sudden some Justin Beiber-looking fuckwit pops-up and goes, "I'm single this week, wanna scrog?" and like that you're sitting there alone looking foolish.
Yep.
This is why we can't have nice things.
Don't go turning all the nice guys into assholes now!
Am I in any way wrong though?
This is why we can't have nice things.
Objectively, probably not. I only know my own subjective feelings, anyway.
First thing that ever attracted me to James was his complete lack of trying to arrogantly impress me, while at the same time paying me attention as though I were a human, not some sort of conquest.
Of course I then proceeded to spend the last couple of decades messing him up royally, but that is another story.
hahr, I just remembered, he wasn't so nice to other people, however.
After the first night we were together he blasted this while staring down my asshole abusive boyfriend... who didn't say a word, just shriveled up and seethed.
There are plenty of women who don't pick that guy, but go with the nice one instead.
This is why we can't have nice things.
Yeah, I keep realizing that I somehow end up going for the guys with massive issues. They seem like they have their shit together but they end up wanting someone to fix them and I just don't, I can't be that person. I can support and comfort but I can't fix the things that I didn't break. That's something that someone has to decide to do for themselves.
Anyway, hooray of my day is this peppermint hot chocolate.
Yeah. It is pretty impossible to fix the things one did break as well. They will always be crooked unless the person they belong to makes them otherwise, is what I have learned.
I realize I have issues myself and there is a certain degree that you have to heal on your own and another where you want to heal in order to be closer to someone else, and lastly that person will help you get through the healing process. But I've learned that you cannot depend on anyone else to fix you.
I was even told by one of my "exes" that he felt for me and wanted to fix me but didn't know how.
I didn't want to be fixed, I wanted to be understood and supported through the process of healing. Having pity for someone is not a good way to woo someone.
I think you should forget about Alex and focus your energy on the classmate. Unless sex with Alex is just that important to you.
When I met Drew, I knew I wanted to date him and be in a relationship with him. Once we started dating, we became exclusive pretty quickly (meaning, we verbalised that we were exclusive, even though we already were, physically). Up until I met him, I'd been casually seeing (meaning sleeping with) another man. Even though it was good nookie, and even though I wasn't obligated to Drew after only a couple of dates, I stopped seeing the other guy immediately. It meant more to me to be able to say to Drew (if he ever asked) that it was only him from the moment we connected than it did to have one last romp with Jack. I never wanted him to have to "worry" that there'd been any overlap. It would not have been a deal breaker for either one of us, but it's always been a good feeling that there's only been the two of us from the very start.
Of course, I'm a lot older than you and in a different place in life, so I may not have felt the same way back when I was your age.
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Jesus, This classmate is into you. From what my foggy mind can grasp he likes you. Atleast enough to go out on a date.
But dont turn down awesome sex as long as it stays in the field of casual.
My Hooray is that things with Cassie, the hippie chick, are going well. We text and talk, she brought me my remote for my car last night after work, got some smooches. Long story short we are both totaly into eachother but I cant get back intoa relationship again, she doenst want one either. Plus she is going on a roadtip for a couple of months in September.
So ya casual, a lot of fun, we get along well. And enjoy eachother far more than is safe. But I am okay with all this.
As your attorney, my advise to you is to start drinking heavily(er).-Tuffy
Maybe?
I'm home and it's a beautiful day.
Take a leap Irina.
As your attorney, my advise to you is to start drinking heavily(er).-Tuffy
So I might have a place to stay for 225 a month. Its a garage but I plan on putting up real walls. Its in a decent location. Only problem is its in a house full of guys who dont know how to clean a bathroom. I am going to bleach everything. Nice kitchen though.
As your attorney, my advise to you is to start drinking heavily(er).-Tuffy
I've had a good weekend. Yesterday I went to this girl I know's birthday party. Had cake and lots and lots of beer pong. Just had a great time overall. When it comes to beer pong and blackjack for that matter, I'm an idiot savant. Meaning, when I'm on, I'm really on. Also had some really good conversation and didn't return home until 3 in the morning.
I could post this in PA but I'm here so...
Today I went to a Steelers bar with my dad. Our server was this cute little girl I went to high school with. I asked her name and told her mine. Nothing really else..