Buzzkill of the Day
When I got to the tea house, I knew what gift I was going to receive - a nice handbag I had picked from H&M. One of my friends says there's something else, too, a BIG SURPRISE, so I naturally figured they'd got me a ticket to see Leonard Cohen live in 2 weeks, which they know I want really bad. So I started getting my hopes up. Finally everyone shows up, I open the gift, and I see 50 Shades of Grey. In Romanian. Long story short, they're going to return it and find me something else.
Also, Pu Erh tea sucks ass. I was curious to see what it tasted like, before I bought some for myself, but it's really bad. I get that it's healthy, but I didn't like it one bit.
What happened, Justin?
This is why we can't have nice things.
I got banned for using a gif from a gay porn flick as my avatar.
Seems like a bannable offense except a ton of people on the site had pornographic avatars, a lot more explicit than mine. It's just that all of theirs were straight and mine was, well, gay.
Oh well.
Lame.
This is why we can't have nice things.
I worried about Noah, guys.
Like, genuinely, and stuff.
I like long stories.
It's the one I drink. The others mostly suck, especially here where any infusion is named tea.
Might not have a girlfriend after today. It sucks but it's either the sadness of a breakup or being with someone i love who wrecks my confidence and leaves me feeling totally alone, even when i'm in bed next to her. I'm not sure what to do but i'd like to work it out. Who knows anymore.
I like long stories.
It's the one I drink. The others mostly suck, especially here where any infusion is named tea.
Long story: I made a face, tried to say I'd already read a bit online, after they asked me if I'd read it, if I had it, if I didn't like it, then slowly worked up the courage to tell them it sucks and it's the Twilight of erotica, and then one of them said we could change it. So I did. Today, and I got Ariel by Sylvia Plath instead.
As for Pu Erh... It doesn't suck, I was too harsh. With sugar, it's bearable. But that's probably because I don't like green tea or rooibos. If I did, I'm sure I'd love it.
Okay so here is the update. So it was a knee high shear stocking. She was pissed as all hell. I got home, and she is outside waiting for me smoking. She says she is going to this party and I am not coming. I give her a ride, meet up with some friends and she tells me she is going to crash at her friends house. But then 2 hours later calls me because she wants a ride home. Mind you I am a little drunk and totaly mentally fried. After talking for a while I tell her I didnt cheat on her, and that I am pissed that she would even accuse me of doing such. Blah blah blah, stupid fighting.
But then here is the kick to the balls. Oh the engagment is off for now by the way. But here is the zinger. "I just dont love you like I used to. I am not realy in love with you, I love you but not the same."
We are still together, we had a nioe picnick and a good nap. Things seem good but JESUS FUCKING SHIT. What the fuck.
Alecia, you have a great point, I was thinking the same thing. Why is this shit just on me?
And Mike,your words of wisdom are brilliant, I am going to use that.
I want to make this work, I love the girl. But I dont want to be the only one to try.
Sorry you guys have to deal with my shit. SOrry the spelling is terrible, more so than usual. But Hey you guys seem to know your shit? Maybe?
As your attorney, my advise to you is to start drinking heavily(er).-Tuffy
My shit is being single. Works out fine so far. Noah, I'm sorry. She's overreacting and I hope she's just being upset and talking shit. Not actually feeling that.
Sorry you guys have to deal with my shit. SOrry the spelling is terrible, more so than usual. But Hey you guys seem to know your shit? Maybe?
Don't worry about it. This might as well be an outlet. I don't know if any of us know our shit or not, but we've all been through our shit and most of us have dumped it here now and then.
This is one of the awfullest things to hear.
You know what they say about people who suddenly start accusing people of cheating...
SHUT UP CHRIS!
Jeeeeez, let's not start with THIS just yet.
Si vis pacem, para bellum
yeah. Seriously, not cool.
My bad.
What do they say?
They say they're distrustful.
Who the fuck is THEY?
I think They usually don't know shit.
Every situation is unique and there is no place for any of the old adages until long after the end when one just needs something to help themselves reconcile it all.
I think we should wait until he brings up his own concerns before anyone starts putting even worse terrors in his brain in some armchair philosopher attempt to counsel the man on his own relationship of which we no nothing of the history.
No guys he is right. You see Xia's big reason for being so suspicious is because she says I have been really suspicious of her and all that. She said the whole, "Well maybe the reason your always so suspicious of me is because your cheating on me."
Luckily I am not worried about her cheating on me at all. So no worries about that.
As your attorney, my advise to you is to start drinking heavily(er).-Tuffy
I think They usually don't know shit.
Every situation is unique and there is no place for any of the old adages until long after the end when one just needs something to help themselves reconcile it all.
I think we should wait until he brings up his own concerns before anyone starts putting even worse terrors in his brain in some armchair philosopher attempt to counsel the man on his own relationship of which we no nothing of the history.
^5.
Actually, I don't see anything wrong with saying what I said. I mean, I don't want that to be the truth, and I am rooting for Noah every step of the way, but there is a big discussion going on about his relationship and the way his girlfriend is acting, and my one sentence is the one considered inconsiderate and "not cool". Come on, people.
If someone was suddenly flipping their shit at me for cheating, I'd be wondering why the fuck.
No guys he is right. You see Xia's big reason for being so suspicious is because she says I have been really suspicious of her and all that. She said the whole, "Well maybe the reason your always so suspicious of me is because your cheating on me."
Luckily I am not worried about her cheating on me at all. So no worries about that.
I'm sorry to hear that. I sincerely hope everything works out for the best.
I'm staying the fuck out of this conversation from this point on, since it seems we can't consider all options in a situation.
No Fano its all good. I understand peoples reactions. And you are nopt the first person to remind me of that.
On another buzzkill topic I think I am all sorts of oddly hungover right now.
As your attorney, my advise to you is to start drinking heavily(er).-Tuffy
If someone was suddenly flipping their shit at me for cheating, I'd be wondering why the fuck.
If he hadn't already been considering that (at least not seriously), and if it wasn't true, then those few words might've done some serious damage. And it is just an old adage, as pepper described. It's usually best not to stir paranoia in something so delicate.
Si vis pacem, para bellum
All I'll say is this. Discounting things as "age old adages" and "clichés" is foolish. These ideas originate in reality, otherwise they wouldn't become so common in the first place.
I understand the point to be made about "introducing" troublesome ideas, but I still stand my saying it.
Ppppffft(thats the noise I made) Dont worry I am plenty paranoid already. I want to go back to bed. I had voodoo doughnuts last night/this morning at like 5 and my stomach is a wreck.
As your attorney, my advise to you is to start drinking heavily(er).-Tuffy
Thanks for the kind words, Noah. I hope it all works out for the best.
Now if you came home and she had moved the furniture around and threw a knife in the floor, that'd be terrifying. That's what they did in the old days when someone was caught cheating in poker.
I think I could take Xia in a knife fight.
And I cant remember what tv show they spoofed that on.
As your attorney, my advise to you is to start drinking heavily(er).-Tuffy
All I'll say is this. Discounting things as "age old adages" and "clichés" is foolish. These ideas originate in reality, otherwise they wouldn't become so common in the first place.
I understand the point to be made about "introducing" troublesome ideas, but I still stand my saying it.
Yeah, I get that it's a common occurrence, but you're gonna have to play some game theory when discussing that sort of thing.
Si vis pacem, para bellum
The thing I would worry about, Noah, is that you have been more miserable lately than is common; you've been injured, you've started taking meds, you've said that your job is depressing. If she says she doesn't love you like she used to it could be because you're not happy--not that you two aren't happy together but that you, yourself, are unhappy, you're not enjoying life like you used to. So you could be in a situation where you're trying to solve problem B, the problem of your relationship, when problem B only exists because of problem A: a problem with your every day life, which you aren't solving because you're focused on fixing your relationship.
And the marriage seems like a bad idea. You don't like your job, and from the pictures we've seen, the two of you do a lot of fun and silly things. I don't imagine you shopping for curtains, settling down and having kids. You'd miss all the naked bike rides. I was surprised when I heard you two were engaged. I don't see why or how marriage could benefit your situation, but it would seem like a lot of pressure to anyone. If you would lose nothing by calling it off without bringing it up again, I'd call that your move. And if call centers there are as they are here, you should be able to take a stress leave, heal yourself up and figure out what you want to do.
Oh we are not going to get married any time soon. I love the girl but I got my own shit to figure out. And no, I sure as shit am not happy these days. Thats all sorts of true. Your probably right about problem A and B. Infact I know you are. I have to get my shit sorted out. But sadly I cant afford time off. I cant afford much right now. And a stress leave wouldnt go over well at this place.
As your attorney, my advise to you is to start drinking heavily(er).-Tuffy
I think Canadian laws in regards to employment and leave of absences are much more humane than in the United States. Pity.
You're all jerks for jumping down Chris' throat. Geez.
In my opinion, this was already going on.
Yeah, well. I've already been told how wrong I am in detail once about that today. No matter my disclaimers and attempts to make it clear I don't know what the hell I am talking about.
Which happens every time I turn around here anymore.
Which is why I will be mostly keeping my opinions to myself as much as possible anymore.
In my opinion, this was already going on.
A supportive word is one thing. To suggest his fiancee is cheating on him is another ballpark.
Si vis pacem, para bellum
Would everyone pretty pretty please stop quoting the post in which I misspelled the word 'know'.
Pretty please?
thank you.
Drunk, one of my best friends is a dancer and wanted me to bring her food and then bought me a drink. Bad idea.
As your attorney, my advise to you is to start drinking heavily(er).-Tuffy
That is awful, Big S. Don't settle for that, ever.
I didn't. And it sucks. I don't want to be without her but it looks like were broken up.
Balls sir. I am sorry.
As your attorney, my advise to you is to start drinking heavily(er).-Tuffy
I was having an okay day but then I spilt washing detergent gel all over myself and from there it just kept going downhill really.
Things are shaky but fine now. We had a talk and a dinner and we laughed and made fun of the neighbors and the funny thing is the word "we" was used a lot, in regards to her apartment and our future. Ugh. What if she's the one. That's cool i guess. I think i'm one of those guys who other guys are all "I could treat her so much better" about. She's surrounded by safe, nice guys. Whatever.
Also, the interview at Home Depot went well but they weren't too willing to bend on their schedule and i can't work 5 extra hours a day 5 days a week. A coworker brilliantly suggested i should just work a few hours extra a day a few days a week here, which makes much more sense. No trying to rush out the door to another job. No extra training. No sheer exhaustion. I ran it by the boss and she's cool with it. She even said the pay would be better than finding an extra job. This shouldn't go in the buzzkill thread, actually.
I was fixin to point that out to you (that this should not be in the buzzkill thread, actually). I'm sure you were going for continuity, though, so that's cool. Also, I don't really care which thread things go in because I put stuff all over the place.
I'm out of valerian extract and Sedatif PC and my exam is in 4 hours. I'll just have to rely on my will to calm the fuck down and kick ass.
I didn't get laid because it's that time of the month. Nature totally cock blocked me.
"I love you and I cant imagine a future without you, but I am not happy and that spark is gone. We are breaking up."
"Ya I will pack a bag tomorrow."
"You're leaving, what why? I don't want you to leave."
Big spoons me all night.
Mind you we had both been drinking but WHAT THE SHIT BALLS.
As your attorney, my advise to you is to start drinking heavily(er).-Tuffy
What the shit balls!
I got banned from another forum.